Anger Addiction, there’s probably no person living who has not at some time or another, experienced severe negative emotions. However, when these feelings of anger happen again and again, and seem to be beyond the individual’s control, they are in fact an addiction. And, when this addiction moves to rage, it is a condition that must be addressed for the good health of the individual and everyone around him.
Anger is not always negative; it can be channeled into positive achievements. If a particular social condition arouses negative emotions in you, this can motivate you to take the steps necessary to do something about it. Rage, on the other hand, is purely negative, and has absolutely no positive aspects. When it becomes a dependency recurring again and again, it can be destructive to relationships and to personal well-being.
Seeking help to control such an addiction; whether for you or for someone else, can be challenging. The stigma often associated with such requests, can cause fear and hesitation. Some of this comes from guilt; the feeling that the condition needing help is somehow the individual’s fault. It helps to understand the source of these feelings. Anger or rage often stems from unmet needs or situations over which the individual feels he or she has no control. The outburst of emotion will often give momentary satisfaction, but, in the long run will not solve the original problem. When the outbursts continue to happen, it can lead to even greater feelings of guilt, which can then lead to full-blown panic attacks, which represent a danger in themselves.
Overcoming the fear associated with getting help to deal with your problem is not easy, but it can be done. First, it must be understood that when the condition is extreme, it is hard to stop. Without professional external help, such conditions can become impossible to deal with. Feelings of guilt and shame can increase angst and make it difficult for people to seek help.
A certain amount of anxiety concerning the unknown is normal and to be expected, and dealing with dependence issues involves a huge unknown. But, if the affected person learns to like himself or herself, either independently or with help from those in close relationships, the first major hurdle has been crossed. Next, it helps to identify and take steps to satisfy unmet needs, often an initiator of outbursts.
Finally, while anxiety can cause rises in blood pressure, and are extremely uncomfortable, there is no record of it actually causing significant physical harm. The things we fear; disapproval or censure of others for instance, hurt our feelings, but do not harm others. When we reach that realization, some of the anxiety is relieved almost immediately; much like the child who is finally convinced that there isn¹t actually a bogey man hiding under the bed.
If you or a loved one is suffering from this problem, don’t let fear of the unknown keep you from getting help. Marty Brenner specializes in Anger Management, Domestic Violence
Counseling, Alcohol Addiction and Drug Addiction. He is a Certified Chemical Dependency Counselor and Anger Management Specialist II. He is court approved and offers individual sessions. If you , a family member or someone you know is in trouble for Anger or Drug/Alcohol Abuse , call Marty at 213-500-8865 .For more information please go to the website www.talktomartyb.com or e-mail him directly : firstname.lastname@example.org